Well, just that, really. Backstory: back in December there was a huge blowup in her friend group. A couple ex-friends spread nasty rumours about her to the point that I pulled her from the school and am home educating her. Before I pulled her from school, she had begun cutting. Shortly after, she had a mental health crisis, was hospitalised for two weeks and diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder NOS. She hadn't cut for quite some time after getting out of hospital New Years' Eve but now has begun again even though we'd removed or locked away all blades in the house - she's bought more or got a razor from a friend or something! She came to me Friday and showed it to me and we talked calmly about it but inside I was losing my mind. All the information I can find is counterintuitive to me - it says be understanding, don't watch the child all the time, just ask if they want to talk about it etc. etc. when my instinct is to a) not let her out of the house until she gives over the razor she's used (she won't) and b) if she continues accessing razors etc when out with friends, not let her go out with friends. It seems like just letting her go on about it is allowing her to harm herself and as her mother that seems like the wrong step to take. For what it's worth, she has a therapist and discusses this cutting with him, but he is not allowed to tell me what goes on in their sessions unless she consents, and she won't (she's sixteen).
Has anyone else had a teen do this? How did you get through it?
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Proginoskes · 13/02/2016 13:43
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