First post. Aibu to be utterly fed up with people asking?
Dh and I have been trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant for 2 years and are currently receiving fertility treatment. All issues are my fault.
Sick of people asking when "we'll be next" - should we just come out with it once and for all??
I haven't told family - we're v close and parents would worry. I must say, I did think it would have happened by now and I know they're so excited about grandchildren one day.
Main part of my problem - and I'm probably being over sensitive - is our friends. Another couple we lived with while at Uni. Got married recently, pg first time. Obviously delighted for them. I have told her everything. All I get is "I know it will happen for you" and "think positive", I know she means well however. We saw them last week and all her husband does is joke about how lucky my husband is that he "doesn't have to spend all his money on a baby" etc and smug little jokes about how fertile they are. They made an off the cuff comment about adoption (not related to our situation) and I could have exploded. The same old crap associated with adoption and how its the simple solution to infertility. Our situation is just ignored constantly.
Elsewhere everyone is asking me when we'll be pregnant and it's driving me insane. Aibu to think that bows the time to just come clean?
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At my wits end with explaining about babies
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Jennypan12 · 26/01/2016 19:42
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