Background, 3 boys under 4 y/o and I'm constantly on the road. Am suffering depression/anxiety (relevant). House is a disaster zone. To the point whee we don't let people call to see the kids we meet places or call to them. All I can manages is a basic clean up and toy pick up on a daily basis. I'm drowning at the moment and could really do with a dig out. Dh tries to help but for example if he does the dishes I have to was half of them after him again. He point blank refuses to get a cleaner in but I'm just at the point where I'm getting so upset at the state of the house and I need help. Now I would happily get the cleaner and tell him my money can spend how I like but I'm on unpaid leave from work (ds3 is 6 months). I'm contemplating just getting the cleaner anyway, even though dh money and he's against it. WIBU?
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