Not sure how to feel about this.
Am 7 weeks pregnant with partner I've been with for about 7 years. We're both very happy after trying for a few months after a mc last year.
Partner has been at current (well paid) job for 10 years and hates it. He went to uni and did really well and ended up going straight back to his job when he had finished.
He's wanted a change in career for ages and has recently started thinking about training in something. After a conversation with some friends he has decided he wants to go back to uni to get a masters. I don't want to stop him but if all goes well with this pregnancy we'll have a baby around the same time as he would be quitting work and going back to uni. At the same time we really want to buy a house so are really looking after our pennies.
If I say I don't want him to do it I know he won't but I know it will make him so happy and he'll be able to find a better job eventually.
He can potentially get a bursary where the course will be paid for, and he has savings put aside that we can dip into for emergencies but we would still have to pay living expenses - rent/mortgage, bills, food, and obviously the extra expense of having a well considered and planned for and wanted baby while I'd be on maternity pay.
Not sure if I should ask him to reconsider / put it off for a bit. Could do with some advice!
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Partner wants to start masters when baby is due
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Cinnamon84 · 04/01/2016 21:06
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