I am a mature student who is studying a vocational degree in the caring professions (don't want to be too specific in case I out myself).
I was recently elected as President of this vocations society and have a really great team, apart from one person who is hell bent on dominating our society, talking over the top of people trying to dictate what happens in meetings, how we should do things but in a way that does not allow others a voice and at the same time neglecting things that she is responsible for.
Recently we had a series of events to organise and all had specific organisations to contact. However this person kept contacting people that she had not been allocated and which resulted in people then refusing to speak to the person who was dealing with it and giving a really poor impression of the society. The secretary sent an email to everyone asking them not to do this as it was causing problems but she continued. I spoke to her on the telephone and asked her to send me the contact details of someone both she and the other committee member had been speaking to so that I could thank them for their support, apologise for the confusion and see if they were able to extend a seminar they were holding for us.
She completely ignored this and emailed the person confirming their attendance and telling them I would be in touch to personally thank them. So I emailed her pointing out that she had ignored what I had asked her to do, she had also managed to upset other members of the society and made the society look unprofessional and what could we do to resolve this.
FWIW my work before UNI involved working as part of a management team for over 20 years so I know how to work effectively and the rest of the team like that, that I am professional and as a result they are learning skills for employment.
The reason for my AIBU is that as a result of my email this person then complained to my programme director and some other people at the university that I was intimidating her and had really upset her, in short that I had bullied her. I would never bully someone, I loath it. No one has taken any notice and in fact when she realised that no one was taking her accusations seriously when she was trying to garner support she came and apologised. But it has left a really bad taste and I am concerned that if I try and direct her in the future I will have similar issues. Should just resign and protect myself from any other accusations or is there something I can do to protect myself from this?
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suchafuss · 01/12/2015 05:28
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