I really do hope I don't come across as a brash character, I'm really not, but my DP attitude is really starting to bother me. Please give your opinion on where I stand etc.
DP works under 30 hours a week, so part time. I have been off of work for about 3 months now, and I'm starting (full time), a new job on Monday.
Since taking up my role as house keeper (), it was said that I am to be the one to organise the home completely, and that DP pays his way by working to provide for us and bringing money in, where as I am the homemaker and bring very little in financially (apart from sick benefit).
I can understand this completely, but I sometimes think that if you want something done a certain way etc, you should do it yourself! He was sitting there looking for sandwich fillings this afternoon and demanded why I hadn't been shopping for 'healthier food' because he'd already told me he needs to go on a diet and keeps saying it.
For example, DP will just be sitting there watching telly and I'll be washing up. Once finished, he'll say something along the lines of "aren't you going to dry those?" Or I'll be sitting on my laptop and he'll ask "I asked you yesterday to put a dark wash on for my work clothes, can you do it now please" (this is all while doing nothing at all apart from playing video games/being on iPad/phone).
AIBU? To give DP his due, he insists that when I'm working full time, he'll be the one taking over everything. I believe him, because this is how it worked before when I was working more hours than him.
I guess I'm probably BU, reading it now
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In saying 'if you want something done that badly, do it yourself!'
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TudorTrace · 30/11/2015 20:57
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