This isn't a MIL thing btw but it's been brought to my attention due to her.
My ds isn't keen on his grandma - my H's mum as she is quite overbearing obsessed towards him.
When she comes over she keeps wanting cuddles and kisses and he will sometimes say he doesn't want to so she will threaten with 'no Christmas presents' so he'll then hug her. She called to talk to him yesterday and said 'Say hello! And he said no I don't want to so she again said if he was a good boy he would so he did.
Wwyd? He's nearly 3 btw so still little.
I strongly believe children should learn about body autonomy and that they shouldn't do things that make them feel uncomfortable.
Should I say something next time like 'ds, do you want to hug/kiss grandma?' If he says no, I'll say ok that's fine then, you don't have to.
Also, when she first arrives, he always says hello and gives a hug but she wants more during the period she's there.
Thanks.
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Fugghetaboutit · 20/11/2015 14:23
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