DH wanted to have sex & said so, I said I wasn't in the mood as I was really tired from minimal sleep. I said I just wanted to go to bed early, read a few pages of my book & go to sleep (I suffer with insomnia, reading in bed helps me drift off). I didn't think DH would mind, prior to this convo he had been saying how he would stay up late as he doesn't need to be up early as he's on late shift. I have to be up with the kids at 6:30am.
Anyway, saying no to sex put him in a huff. Whilst I fed our cats he disappeared upstairs. I followed behind switched my little lamp on & whilst I checked on our children he climbed into bed & switched it off again.
So I came back, pointed out I hadn't even started getting ready for bed yet as I was checking the kids, something he never does, and switched it back on whilst I located pj's. I then turned it off, and got my small light on my ereader on so I could still read.
He's thrown a wobbly about the light. I pointed out that he knew I had said I wanted to read in bed to help me sleep (reading downstairs doesn't work as the act of coming back upstairs sort of wakes me again when I get to the drowsy reading stage, fellow insomniacs will get what I mean) and I did mention how he said he wanted to be up late. He's now stormed off back downstairs.
I feel like he's done this in a sulk as I refused sex, had we done it he would have no issue with my reading light. He knew I wanted to read, but AIBU having my ereader light on?
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AIBU or is he? bedtime etiquette
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Arrowfanatic · 15/11/2015 20:53
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