I used to love the summer holidays. I'd make a point of ensuring that my kids got one good day out a week. Theme parks, seaside, cinema, boating lakes etc etc...
Then they got older ....
The first time I realised it was getting difficult was when I took them to Turkey. They were 11 and 9. My eldest spent the entire time moaning that it was hot / boring / dirty / pointless and basically refused to leave the hotel.
3 years later I took them on a two week trip across America (New York, Vegas and La. They spent the entire time moaning, complaining, arguing, fighting and basically ruined it and almost wrecked my relationship with DP who said he didn't feel like they'd appreciated anything and he wishes he'd never come with us.
Since then I've not taken them on holiday anywhere. I just don't see the point. Not only that, but my eldest refuses to come on any trips, day outs etc with us saying we're far too boring and do crap stuff. He's 16. Youngest is 14 and moans and complains constantly. Never wants to get out of bed to do anything. Everything I suggest at cinema he doesn't want to see. Any day out I suggest he says sounds crap. This summer holidays he's barely left his room and I can't be arsed anymore. I'm taking him to a theme park next week but that will be his lot. Last year I took him out to xscape and he caused a huge argument with me before we set off because he couldn't be arsed to get ready. I felt like crying as dp was away with his own kids having a great time constantly sending me happy photos of them all.
Would it be unreasonable of me to stop feeling guilty that his summer holidays are shit? Eldest refuses everything (even the themepark) and youngest spoils everything we try and do anyway! I'm sick of trying.
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I never do anything with my kids anymore. Should I feel guilty???
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BattlefieldWidow · 02/08/2015 18:37
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