Okay, so recently (last month or so), my OH of 1 year isn't ejaculating anymore when we have sex, which I find really hard because 1. It makes me feel satisfied when he does and 2. He isn't really enjoying it as much anymore, I know he isn't, and I'm usually the one inisiating sex.
Here's my issue: He gets SUPER touchy and gets his back up when I try and mention it. I only ever mention it calmly and in a considerate way, yet he still gets so pissy!
I want to try and help/talk about this but he just won't, which is making this all 10 times work. I can't bring this up to him as I did again 5 minutes ago and he dismissed it and got angry.
I know he does masturbate a lot, but yesterday he went 4 days without masturbating and STILL couldn't cum when we done it. I feel like absolute shit.
In the past, if he had a
bit of trouble ejaculating, he'd just wank and then when he was ready to climax, I'd take him in my mouth etc (sorry for TMI)
Oh, and might I add, he's only ever ejaculated through vaginal penetration once, possibly twice, since we've been together.
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Spicysugars · 28/07/2015 14:16
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