Afternoon all - hoping for a bit of sage MN advice...
Background - my mum died 3 years ago, and ever since my birthday cards from MIL (on behalf of both IL) are signed from
"Mum and dad". We are not close, and even though I have squared our relationship with myself so I don't drive myself mad every time I see them, this still really REALLY bothers me. It strikes me as massively insensitive at worst, and deluded at best that I would consider them close enough to be called "mum and dad". DH even asked them before the latest card not to sign like this but the request was ignored/ forgotten. On the one hand I think I should just suck it up for 1 card/ year. On the other I feel I'm putting my own feelings second to MILs and that I have every right to ask her not to do this in future. So, AIBU if I ask her to stop and if not, how do I do it tactfully? Sticking up for myself has never been a strong point!
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OrdinarySoup · 20/07/2015 16:40
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