I need to get this out before I have a complete wobble!
FIL had a big operation at the beginning of the year. Basically from start to finish the whole communication thing between MIL and the hospital has been appaulling - appointments made but not needed then a phone call to say can you be at the hospital within three hours (hospital is 25 miles away and FIL cannot drive due to the operation). The ward staff were fantastic, could not do enough for him and his visitors.
So, FIL used the hospital transport once - he will now not use it because he said it took too long to get there and back (I think he thought it was for him only and not for other passengers en route) and it was too rough a ride for him. He is now insisting that DP take him on all future appointments. Normally, this would not be a problem BUT DP has no more holiday and is taking all leave unpaid (we cannot afford this but it is his parents so believe we need to just suck up the financial loss). FIL now has an appointment next week and has asked DP to take him. It is on a day that DP picks the DCs up from school. We have asked that he takes the hospital transport on this occasion as there is no one else to pick the DCs up from school and have them for two hours until I get home. He refuses and asks again. So they come up with the idea that he takes the DCs out of school at lunchtime and takes them to the hospital as well and then they can go for a meal afterwards.
I am not happy at all with this idea at all.
So basically am I being unreasonable to assume they are being a tad selfish that they are happy for DP to loose a days pay and the children be taken out of school for the afternoon just so they don't have to use the transport? Or am I missing the point? Will be back a bit later on.
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Sometimesitsnowsinapril · 03/07/2015 16:20
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