I'm furious! 8 months ago I left my ea oh and moved into a refuge, 8 months on and I've got a ha house and I am slowly rebuilding the lives of my children and I. I get nothing off my ex and rely totally on benefits. Despite this I've been bending over backward to try to encourage a relationship between my children and their dad. The children are 18 months and 5 and ex has said he wants to see them but feels he cannot cope with them both, so whenever they visit him I stay in the spare room. Recently it has become every weekend and his attitude is once again becoming more unpleasant, including complaining about the children making any sort of mess and that he has to tidy up when they've left. This weekend I got there last night to be greeted by my god you look terrible, why don't you make some bloody effort (I had jeans on and my hands show signs that I've been decorating) I then spent all evening sorting out some paperwork he wanted, no thanks given. This morning the 5 year old felt it a good idea to ignore me as every time I asked him to do something his dad failed to say anything or back me up. He then Went into the garden and poo'd on the patio and the other child played with it, 5 year old said nothing. In the end the general bad behaviour of the 5 year old led to dad saying he thought it best we leave, as we were leaving he said take them away and don't ever bring them back, he then said he considers all this my fault and he doesn't agree with how I parent, he also will not say how he would do it as he said he'll be criticised and he's not making that mistake again. He also said how depressed it made him feel. i'm back home again with 2 confused children and I'm furious!
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