I am aware holidays are a luxury and not everyone can afford them, however we are in a position where it is possible if we save and spread out the cost over the year that we can do this.
My DH and I have been together for five years, we have a DS 2, DSS10 DSSD 7. His parents moved to Spain four years ago and don't like coming back to the UK apart from special occasions.
We have taken all the kids out to see them in the summer holidays every year they have been there as this is now their only real opportunity to see Granny & Grandad and likewise for my DH to see his parents once a year apart from Skype. In most years it uses up most of our annual leave and any disposable income. It is a difficult situation as I know my DH misses his parents and DSS & DSD also miss their grandparents and my DS doesn't really know them apart from Skype. I have no issue with DH going out to see them when he likes or taking the kids, but his EX isn't keen apart from a couple of weeks in the summer.
I'd love to be able to book a summer holiday for us all to get away, but then its not possible for the kids to go and see their grandparents; that feels awful....but AIBU that after five years I would like to go on our first holiday together just once at least? I don't want to come between my DH seeing his parents or the kids and their grandparents, but I would just like a break that doesn't involve my in laws- AIBU?
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Discotastic · 23/06/2015 15:55
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