I love my mum loads and we're really close. My bridesmaids and I have been joking that instead of being a bridezilla, I have a mumzilla. She wants her own way and has caused me quite a bit of stress even though my fiance and i are paying for everything. my sister has repeatedly told her that it's not her wedding and she needs to just go along with what I want. I've decided to have my hen party at my house. A bit of murder mystery silliness, a few games, cocktails and a buffet. Cheap and cheerful. We've asked everyone to chip in a small amount (appx £20) for food, drink and decorations. She's told me that she and two of her best friends (kind of like aunties to me) are unhappy I'm asking for money and if I'm having a house party I should be paying for all the supplies. She's begrudgingly now said they'll bring their own drink and an item each for the buffet. They don't fancy taking part in the murder mystery game and will just sit and chat while the rest of us get on with it. I'm pissed off. A lot of women spend a fortune on hen weekends and holidays and I really don't think I'm asking for a lot. I'm thinking of just telling her tomorrow not to come even though I know it will really upset her.
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thefourgp · 13/06/2015 21:38
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