I'm 7 weeks pregnant. BF and I own our own homes and don't live together. I have two DC's who live with me 50% of the time. My house is bigger and is close to DC's school, and is in a nice area. I think the most sensible thing is for BF to rent his house out and move into mine once the baby arrives.
While he has grudgingly agreed to move into mine he doesn't want to rent out his house. He used to be a DJ and has loads of music equipment and records. He's wanted to set up a studio in his house for ages and doesn't want to give that up. There isn't enough room at mine for his studio but I've got a massive garden and we've talked about building a studio in the future, so I'm not asking him to give it up forever. I'm not happy with him keeping his house on for this reason alone as it means we'll struggle financially purely to support his hobby, and the only way it would be worthwhile is if he was spending a few nights a week at it. I don't want him out three nights a week while I'm dealing with a newborn.
He feels that I'm expecting him to give up everything, his life is over, and just slot into my life. I do understand that it's a big sacrifice to make but I feel he needs to be realistic and work out what's most important. AIBU?
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stuffedup · 10/06/2015 19:34
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