Mil wants to meet my dh with my pfb to buy her first pair of school shoes.
There is a back story to this, she is very needy and self absorbed. She expects us to do all visiting, to buy and wrap our kids birthday and Christmas presents from her, to take her food shopping, she told me to buy a new car so she can fit in so we could take her places and the list goes on.
This is a woman in her mid sixties with no major health problems. I find her attitude very draining and I am not used to someone being so self reliant on other people. My sil feels the same way.
As a consequence I would prefer to keep her at arms length.
My Mil was also not there for her children while they were growing up so I feel that she is trying to take away this precious moment from me.
I am my daughters mum so dh and I should be getting her first pair of school shoes and not her and my dh. Am I being unreasonable to feel this way?
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To not let Mil come shoe shopping
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Amonkeyisnotacitykid · 08/06/2015 10:12
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