I have AS so could really do with some honest opinions.
My daughter is 21 and also has AS. She is very clever and very articulate but she has these huge black holes of understanding. She rang me in a terribly distressed state earlier. She posted an article on Facebook saying she agreed with it. A friend of mine had a go at her because it was offensive.
Friend then posted her own status critising 'people' who have these opinions but not explicitly saying what it was in reference to. Daughter engaged with it and got slapped back down. At which point she rang me.
The article in question was offensive but the author did make some valid points to support his offensive agenda. Having talked to daughter it's clear she had no idea of why it was offensive. She had completely missed the agenda of the author and was distraught at being in so much trouble but not having a clue why. Once I'd talked her through it she went back and deleted everything.
Unfortunately friend's status and her responses to my daughter have stayed up. Since then friend mates (who I don't know) have had a good laugh about it, egging each other on to take the piss until 'she snaps and de-friends you'.
I just don't know how to deal with situations like this. I know it's only facebook, but this is my daughter who is very vulnerable and my friend who knows that. I want to walk away completely. It's the only way I know how to cope. AIBU?
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ConfusedAS · 03/06/2015 16:48
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