I know I'm not but I feel guilty so can you lovely vipers make me feel better please!
Hen weekend in 3 months, 200 miles from me, deposit needed in a fortnight, total cost around £200 not including the transport there or the fancy dress.
I have an ebf 4 month old who doesn't yet sleep through. Yes she will be on solids by then but I don't know how well, and I wanted to continue bf, so 2 nights away could be really difficult. I've never yet been 2 nights away from pfb .
This is my main reason, but in addition, I have no spare money. Not even for the deposit let alone the whole weekend.
And if that wasn't quite enough, I only know the bride, out of the 25 or so attendees.
So I've declined and will save up and send a bottle of something. But I feel so bloody guilty. Aibu to not go, and aibu to feel guilty?
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slithytove · 15/01/2015 15:32
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15/01/2015 16:19
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