Hi all, DP and I are currently discussing guest list for our wedding. My friend has split up from her ex but they have three kids together (well they will do, she's pregnant with no3). He's a useless fecker - her words, not mine - and never does anything with the kids. She struggles financially because he's never paid a single penny towards the kids, CMS can't help as he's unemployed and refuses to claim JSA (he lives with his parents for free). But for some reason, she still wants him to come to my wedding. I can't stand the guy, from what she's told me, he's been abusive (both sexually and emotionally) right throughout their entire relationship. I know it's so hard cutting ties with someone who was abusive (I know because I've been there) and it must be so much harder when there are kids involved, but I really don't want him there. AIBU? If I am I'll suck it up, invite him and just be polite to him for her sake, but I'd really rather not tbh. I've sort of hinted I don't want him there, even offered to invite her parents if she wants help with the kids, but she's adamant they'll be getting on well enough for him to come. Tbh I'm not even sure how to bring it up with her. I'm probably just being unreasonable though aren't i?
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