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MIL gave us cinema vouchers for Christmas. Lovely. We love going to the cinema.
However. The vouchers are for her local cinema. We are staying with/near her for 10 days. The cinema is tiny and only shows 1 film in the day & one at night.
We have no childcare here. MIL will not babysit at night.
She declared that tomorrow is the only day she is willing to have the DC by herself (which is particularly sad in other ways as we are emigrating in just over a week) and that as she won't do night times, we are to go to the midday film.
Which we aren't particularly fussed about seeing.
But of course to not go is to turn down her Christmas present.
So. I know IABabitU, as she didn't have to get us anything and no grandparent is obliged to babysit at all.
But AIBU to feel a little bit controlled and irritated by: I'm giving you something that you could potentially enjoy but with all sorts of conditions so that in fact you will end up doing what I want you to do?
Or have I just been down her being controlled by her long enough and I'm seeing controlling behaviour in absolutely everything now?
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I know AIBU and should be grateful...
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