Work secret Santa, first year I've done it. £10 budget and the woman I got loves chocolate so I got a choice of chocolate, some cadbury's (her favourite), some fancy stuff. Probably came to about £13-14. Anyway, in to work today and it's all round the department how much she hates it, she's had chocolate for the past few years, there was no effort put into it, it was just a fancy chocolate lolly.
AIBU to think even if you hate a gift you pretend it's nice? Particularly at work, and when you know the person will hear? I would have thought chocolate or wine would be pretty standard.
I should add that the gift I got was lovely and way over the £10 which makes me think maybe it's an unwritten rule that you go over budget. Also the woman herself is usually nice and I haven't heard her complain but she must have told a few people she hates it for it to get round the department. I'm quite upset, I really tried to get something she would like.
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To think it's bad manners to complain about your secret Santa gift?!
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ashmts · 26/12/2014 16:17
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