I have come across a few people like this, but currently am casual friends with a woman who behaves in this way too. I see her on the odd night out or lunch/coffee meet up, and also at the school most days.
She literally has to make everything about her! If anyone else says anything, she turns the conversation round into being about her. Someone might say they went somewhere, or have done something, and she will immediately launch into a story about when she went to that place, or did that thing. I recently told her that my grandfather had died the day before and instead of saying she was sorry for my loss or even really acknowledging my loss, she said "See that's what worries me about getting old, getting something like that!". He had dementia.....
Each time we all get together she somehow manages to make it all about her; changing the time at very short notice to suit her as she's popped to see another friend beforehand, or asking us all to send her a text once we're there. Or she'll be really late, and then interrupt the conversation and start telling us a story about why she is late. She can never just have a date, time and meeting place and just turn up. There's always a drama or another, or an adjustment to suit her.
That said, she is a nice enough person, and doesn't do it maliciously. I just find it a bit irritating. I've put it down to her being a bit spoilt as a child and continuing to think that she is the centre of the universe.
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chickenmadcat · 01/12/2014 23:12
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