This has become increasingly difficult since my husband retired, and started a new business which is also based at home. I also have an outside part-time job, which means I am out of the house every lunchtime.
Some of the stuff he needs for the business is stored in the room where I work. He will also occasionally need access to the PC I use, because the iPad he mostly uses doesn't currently have software which will allow his database to be stored there. And he will sometimes want to make use of the cordless phone to make calls on the landline - rather than his mobile.
When he first retired, he would also constantly open the door to keep telling me what he was doing, where he was going. Or I'd go up to clean my teeth, come down to start work, only to find he'd started using the computer to make entries on the database.
I've tried really hard to solve the problems. I've suggested that every breakfast he tells me what he's going to do that day, so he doesn't have to keep interrupting me by telling me what he's doing - I'll already know. I've suggested that when he needs to use the room where I work, that whenever possible he does this while I'm out at my part-time job.
But over the last few days everything has gone horribly wrong. There was a busy weekend doing family-related stuff, so I couldn't do much work then. Plus sleeping problems meant that I had to stick to doing things which didn't need much concentration. So I was looking forward to Monday morning, when normally I'd have several hours when my daughter was at school, but before I had to leave for my part-time job. I was a bit disconcerted to find that my husband had invited one person round to view stuff stored in my work space at 9.30 and another at 10. I told him it was not ideal. Even so, just having 45 minutes before the 9.30 appointment felt better than nothing. My husband managed to interrupt me three times between 8.45 and 9.30 - taking out the phone, putting it back and then telling me that he would be going out for 15 minutes. After the third interruption, I got really angry with him - and he became hurt and defensive, rather than apologising..
I am really feeling quite desperate. Can anyone relate to that feeling of despair?
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MarianneSolong · 01/12/2014 11:03
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