This is about someone who I used to consider my best mate- maid of honour at wedding, God parent to ds a1.
She has always been career focused and driven. I've always understood this and made allowances for cancellations etc.
The problem is this- she has always and I mean since we were kids been any thing up to or way beyond 2 hours late for arrangements. She has really pissed off a lot of people over the years , including me. She has now moved to a European city and often tries to meet up with me- but she cancels at the last minute every time. I worked out that I haven't seen her in well over a year and that she had initiated and made arrangements to see me on 8 occasions and cancelled last minute every time. The last straw for me had been that she wanted us to go to a festival for a belated hen do for her, due at mine on the Friday night, planning on making our way the next morning. She cancelled at 7pm on the Saturday evening by text.
I know she's been ttc for over a year and she said she thought she might be pg so she didn't want to come in an e-mail a week later,- and I am pregnant which must make it harder - but surely she could have just let me know even a few days before?
I haven't been able to respond as I can't bear to be all like yeah no worries- when in fact I think it's incredibly disrespectful of me and I've had enough. Aibu and wwyd?
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sangfreude · 13/11/2014 16:36
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