I'm about 9 weeks pregnant and I haven't told anyone yet but one person, and that's only because I was so sick.
To be completely honest I'm struggling with the whole thing for various reasons and have considered that I don't actually have to go through with it.
Dp keeps asking when he can tell his mum and dad and it's driving me insane.
If I decide to go ahead I wanted to keep it quiet until after the scan, not only because anything could happen but because I'm finding it all so overwhelming I don't need the added pressure of people knowing. I have my first scan date but haven't even arranged my booking appointment yet because it just makes it feel so real.
I know it's about him too not just me, but I don't see the rush to tell people. I often feel he worries what his family think or that they'll be upset if he doesn't tell them things, but it's my body and our baby and I couldn't really give a monkeys about anyone else right now.
I'm annoyed because he hasn't even arranged the day off for the scan yet but he's pestering me about telling his mum and dad.
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Aibu to want to keep it to ourselves?
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Sockstealer · 05/11/2014 11:57
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