My 2yo adores his grandparents (in-laws) however, despite living only a 5 minute drive away, they NEVER visit us. That's fine, we've got used to it over the years. My problem is whenever we visit them (usually at least once a week) FIL sits in the lounge playing his Xbox. The games he plays are very violent, usually very graphic shooting games with lots of bad language. He will sit and play these games whilst we are all in the same room and expects my son to just play with his toys whilst he plays his computer and occasionally interacts with us.
Whenever I have broached this subject my MIL has just shrugged it off by saying that he will be into guns himself before I know it. DH is of the opinion that there's not much more we can do as we can't dictate what FIL does in his own home and so he will support me if I decide that I do not want DS to visit whilst this is going to be happening.
But I feel sad for my DS that he will be missing out on a relationship with his grandparents. He dotes on FIL. They won't visit us, they just won't do that despite the fact that I know they love spending time with him.
So WIBU to stop taking DS to visit knowing that his contact with his grandparents will be drastically reduced?
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To not take my toddler to visit his grandparents?
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pinktoe · 04/11/2014 21:25
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