SIL popped over this weekend, and asked how I am finding life with DS (4 months) who is my first and much longed for baby. I said fine, learning to get to grips with juggling life and a baby, and its getting easier.
I mentioned (I thought fairly casually), "oh the garden is suffering a bit because I haven't been able to get out much, with the weather and the one time I busy gardening I popped in to check on DS and he was screaming." (I hadn't been able to hear him over the lawnmower and our video monitor is only hooked up to work in his bedroom, but he was napping in the living room - not to drip feed!)
She said that it didn't matter if he was screaming and to crack on. My response is that I didn't know how long he'd been screaming for- had he just started or had he been that way for 15 minutes? She said it didn't matter and "Babies can cry you know".
I do know that babies cry! But surely you should check why the baby is crying?! Please tell me if I am being precious but I just said I had left it until a day when DH was free to do it or could keep an eye out for DS.
What I thought was a fairly throw away comment, along the lines of "oh e're fine but the garden is a bit of a state" became a 'thing'.
Is it reasonable to leave a baby to cry for an unspecified amount of time just because you fancy mowing the lawn? Please tell me if I am being unreasonable? Know I have written it out I expect I might be?!
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imyourhuckleberry · 03/11/2014 07:33
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