DD9 has been asking for a pandora bracelet for about a year (v unoriginal I know)
I repeatedly said no. Explained it was expensive and not just a bracelet for everyday wear for a nine year old. However her school report was great and she has been so helpful this year and just generally well behaved. I relented and took her out for a special day out to choose a bracelet and one charm. Even the assistant said how lucky she was and how she should look after her jewellery. DD spent ages choosing one special charm and hasn't taken the bracket off since.
I was hoping it could be a special thing for her and she could look forward to choosing a new charm on birthdays/Xmas etc.
Cue Daddy (ex husband) coming home from holiday.....DD has come home with not one, not two, not even three but FOUR new fucking charms for her bracelet. Why does she need FOUR at once? He's just gone into the nearest Pandora shop and bought whatever he thought she might like. Not only that e has bought DD (4) a bracelet too. Yep the FOUR year old.
AIBU here to think he's taken anything that was special about it away?
I was trying to get DD to appreciate a nice grown up piece of jewellery and to look forward to adding new pieces to it. To realise that you save up and treat yourself on special occasions and for it to have some kind of meaning to her.
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AIBU?
To think find your own bloody present!
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3stripesandout · 03/09/2014 23:00
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