Have posted in chat too but no responses so moving here for traffic!
DH was violent and abusive.
We split in dec and I have allowed every other weekend with DS (age 1) since.
He wouldn't be abusive to DS, however he would have no issues with shouting and screaming in his presence.
The house is filthy dirty and when I picked DS up this sunday he had very severe nappy rash (whole cheek of bottom was red raw and bleeding). He also threatened to turn up to my house and take him.
It is DS's birthday today and I agreed reluctantly to let DH see him, in the presence of his parents, in a public place (to minimise risk of arguments) for three hours.
He is now an hour and a half late home. I have phoned his mum who said that DH was 'under the impression that I had agreed to 12 - 6'. - I had sent a text and confirmed 12 - 3.
they are now bringing him back.
I do not trust him with my son. I have been stupid until now in allowing it and I think it is time for supervised contact.
how does it work? Can I insist on it? who arranges it? Am I even within my rights to push for it?
AIBU (and can I even do it) to push for this?
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AIBU?
To insist he only sees his son supervised
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Fairy13 · 23/06/2014 16:57
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