Ds is 20 months old. I had to pick up ds1 from an activity. I was probably gone 20 minutes. I left ds2 with dh and dd who is 7. As usual ds2 cried as I was leaving. Upon my return ds2 was asleep on the floor by the dor and dh was upstairs playing a computer game. I assumed dh had been downstairs with him trying to comfort him and eventually he fell asleep.
However dh came down to watch tv and said. "O he is asleep than. I thought he must be"
Aibu that it is not acceptable to go upstairs to pay a game leaving a probably distressed toddler downstairs with a 7 year old.
Background. Dh hasn't bonded that well with ds as he had very little contact when young. He was breastfed and came everywhere with me. I did all the basic care. Ds wasn't planned either and he claims lack of bonding is down to me still breastfeeding. Not because I felt the need to protect dh from his crying as he needed sleep.
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to find it hard to trust him with ds now.
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medic78 · 11/05/2014 13:12
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