Basically my husband is adamant I should do controlled crying with DS2, 7.5 months. DS2 and I co-sleep in the spare room. He has always been a very needy baby. Milk protein allergy, reflux etc, but we seem to have his feeding under control now he is on solids and he is doing much better. He will sleep happily nexto me from 11-6am, sleeping by himself (after an hour of cuddling) from 7pm-11pm.
He can't settle himself at all, but just being nexto me comforts him all night. If he wakes up before I go to bed I just pick him up for 2 minutes, pop in his dummy and he goes back to sleep, not a problem.
The problem is that my husband won't co sleep with him, hence why we are in separate rooms. He believes that DS2 needs to learn the skills to self soothe. Also, I have 2 year old, who I have at home with me too and trying to get DS2 to sleep during the day can be a struggle, running back and forth trying to get him to sleep, whilst making sure DS1 is ok.
So basically am I being unreasonable to the rest if my family by allowing DS2 to be so clingy?
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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GiveMeVegemite · 10/05/2014 09:46
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