I have a 6 week old baby who I'm exclusively breast feeding. It was very difficult from the off set and I spent about 2 weeks constantly crying and I always felt that something just wasn't right with my attachment and latch. I voiced my concerns to my ME and my HV, telling them about the problems I was having and despite observing me feeding they just kept telling me everything was fine so I carried on doing what I was doing.
Over the last 10 days things were gradually getting more difficult and so yesterday me and DH paid to have an appointment with a lactation consultant for advice because I just couldn't continue with what I was doing and BF was no longer enjoyable for me. She was absolutely brilliant and could see instantly where my problems lay (including a mild fongue tie in DS) and she taught me new feeding positions etc and I couldn't believe how easy my baby attached and that when he was feeding it was pain free for the first time in weeks. What she did was so, so simple that I can't believe the HV and MW weren't able to offer the same support, advice and practical help.
It cost us £100 for a 45 minute appointment and it angers me to think that BF support and knowledge from professionals is so dire that women are being forced to pay for such services just to get the help they need. It's drummed in to us how 'breast is best' and how poor the breastfeeding rate is etc but is it any wonder? Me and DH are fortunate that we could afford to pay for the advice and so it makes me feel frustrated that a lot of women who probably really want to breast feed are forced to give it up because they can't afford to pay for advice and help that should be given to women as a basic standard of feeding support!
It's just so wrong.
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Writerwannabe83 · 04/05/2014 19:34
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