Have nced. I'll try to keep it brief, 3 years ago DW was diagnosed with an eating disorder after coming out of an abusive relationship- we weren't together then but very close friends. She was in hospital for several months and finally recovered about 1 year later, but has had a few relapses since, thankfully all dealt with in early stages. Aside from these she has a few health problems remaining but mostly is fine. Before she was diagnosed and we were together I was working abroad on projects for a few weeks/months at a time, when DW and I got together and I was caring for her I took time off and was able to go back to work without travelling when she recovered.
Next week is meant to be my first time working abroad since DW was diagnosed, as it's temporary we will not be relocating, I will be away for 4 weeks and she will be here with 10 YO DD. When I agreed to this trip I was obviously concerned as this will be the first time I'll be away but as DW had been well for a while I thought it would be OK. However this week I've noticed the warning signs of a relapse and am worried that me being away for a long period of time might be enough to tip her over the edge. On the other hand, I know she wants me to go as this is a big part of my job I haven't been able to do in a long time, and I do wonder if perhaps she's worried about it now but it will all be fine when it happens. Not sure what to do really.
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dancersdad · 24/03/2014 21:26
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