I will preface this by saying that I don't get on with my manager.I have no wish to increase the amount of contact we have. I do my job and she does hers. We have nothing else in common and have no conversations outside of work related matters.There is no animosity though, just a working relationship that does not tip over into anything remotely personal or 'fun'. She is confrontational though for no good reason and impossible to have a conversation with as she is always right. I don't speak to her unless I have to.
She went on holiday and has brought back some presents for her colleagues. She sent an email saying colleagues could come to her desk and pick what they wanted from the presents.
I didnt read the email until late in the day and realised I had seen the tacky plastic items in a colleagues desk. I decided to ignore the command as I had no wish to go and be nice just for something I neither wanted or needed.I had of course previously done the decent thing and enquired about the holiday.
She came and asked me a few days later why I hadnt come to fetch my present and wondered if perhaps I didnt want it? I avoided answering her by diverting her attention to a work question I genuinely had.
But I have mentally dug my heels in now and wonder why she doesnt just do as everyone else in the office has ever done in the same circumstances and just doled out gifts by plonking them on the desks and receiving the obligatory effusive thanks. Job done.
AIBU to keep this up(and wait for her to deliver the gift) or should I play nicely and crawl to her to get the prize I do not want?
Our Desks are mere feet apart by the way.
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AIBU?
To not go and ask for this present?
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BlueJean · 22/03/2014 23:03
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