Ok, so all of this is going to sound very immature
We were due to go away to visit PIL this weekend. I was looking forward to it and took a half day to go home and get ready. Went home, packed up, cleaned the house and gave DS's baths & dinners so we were all ready to go
DH came home and started packing. He picked up his favourite jumper and realised it had been shrunk a lot in the wash. He had put in the laundry basket and I washed it at the correct temperature so I'm not sure how it happened. I didn't notice what happened and ironed it and hung it up. DH looked angry and said 'what happened to my jumper?!' He gave me an angry look. He was im
I defended myself and said I wasn't going any further until he said sorry. He refused
Meanwhile DS2 was having a massive tantrum downstairs screaming 'mummy mummy mummy daddy daddy daddy'.
I refused to continue getting ready because he hasn't said sorry. DH drove off to PILs with DS1
He came back after 20 mins and sent a mean text to say he was outside and to get out to the car. I refused to move because of the tone of text
He drove off again. Then he came back. I said lets both say sorry as in I was to say sorry for being in a strop and him to say sorry for refusing to apologise. Again he refused and got really angry.
He's normally a lovely person but he's in a right rage now. He says himself and DS1 will go to PIL's tomorrow and I can stay here.
Was I wrong to insist on an apology? If I'd brushed it off we could have gone off to visit PIL and if we'd discussed it later on he may have acknowledged he was wrong. Instead what happened was there was a stand off for 3 hours which resulted in us going nowhere :-(
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Aibu - stupid argument with DH!
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iloveironing · 21/03/2014 20:54
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