So SIL is almost 30 I've bought a card but should I send a present (she lives an hour away).
Normally I would send flowers or post something nice to a family member having a big birthday but DB and SIL have never acknowledged my birthday, never had a card or even a FB message. In the past I've always just sent SIL a card and DB a card with some money to get a few birthday drinks on us.
Now do I
a) send card and present
b) send card only
c) not send a thing and say Happy Birthday on FB.
SIL just makes no effort with our DCs either, DD2s birthday last month my brother just transferred in £20 about 2 weeks after her birthday. With their DS we go visit and take toys and cards. Feels very one sided.
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to not get SIL a 30th birthday present?
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sweetkitty · 25/02/2014 23:23
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