Bit of background: DP and I live in a flat with another couple. DP and the other guy are good friends from school, the other woman and I have an OK relationship. I do not enjoy living with them as would rather it be just DP and I but we cannot afford to live alone. We are both 29. No kids.
It feels like DP and other male flatmate treat our flat like a party house. We've been out for some drinks with friends, it's midnight, we call it a night and then they say "everyone back to ours". No consultation.
It's now 2am, they are all playing music, drinking beer and chatting. I have work tomorrow (DP has his own business so can do as he pleases, flatmate starts work in the afternoons).
I am so pissed off. I'm going to be really tired tomorrow. If I try and tell DP I don't want people round I'm told "it's their flat too" (fair enough) and that I should be "more spontaneous".
I'm really tired of it all. I know if DP and I had our own place none of this would happen. it makes me resent everyone so much, resent that we can't afford to live alone which I know is just life, resent these people being round (who are, in daylight hours, my friends too).
I wish they'd all fuck off so I could get some sleep like normal people do on a weeknight.
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chrome100 · 21/02/2014 02:08
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