DS2 is going on a school ski-iing trip on Friday. His dad has paid for it in full (which is nice of him, DS2 is v appreciative and looking forward to it).
They leave late Fri night. The school is a 5 min walk from my house.
Tonight, ie Tuesday, 3 days before he goes, DS2 goes out with his dad - and a message is passed to me (via DS1 as I don't speak to my Ex directly) that Ex needs me to give him all DS2's clothes/ underwear/footwear/toiletries for the trip tonight. Failing which Ex will go out and buy him all new stuff.
I've given most of it to him - some of it is in laundry etc, but will be ready for Fri. Just not tonight, because it doesn't need to be, except for him insisting!
I know I shouldn't care but it just annoys - he was exactly like this when we were together, if I couldn't lay my hands on any given item within minutes, he'd say the house was a mess, then fuck off to the shops to buy a new one.
Luckily most of the time that's no longer my problem. But on occasion I don't think I am BU to get irritated by it!
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velvetspoon · 11/02/2014 22:15
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