I'm feeling awful. I decided to put DD in preschool a couple of days ago to give her a years worth of 'practice' before school. She's never been left anywhere before and has always been either with me or DH (or with grandparents on rare occasions). She has always had strong separation anxiety, I suspect because of her traumatic premature birth and frequent hospitalisation over the last 4 years.
The first day she went in quite happily as it was novel but came out on floods of tears. The second today she was quite as apprehensive going in, saying 'I don't want you to go' and again she came out clearly having been crying. Today was horrendous. She cried her eyes out going in and clung to me. Her teachers had to prise her off me and I walked home crying myself and feeling like the worst mum in the world. She came out a bit more happily today but her teachers said she'd cried on and off throughout the session :( They also said she'd wet herself. She's not don't that in well over a year. When we got home she wet herself again and she has talked constantly about wanting to stay with me. She hasn't eaten properly either and her eczema has really flared up.
I don't know if its the wrong place or just the wrong time? Every part of me wants to take her out but everyone is saying its the right thing to do keeping her in :(
Would it be completely unreasonable to not give her a good chance at settling?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To give up after 3 days?
31 replies
mollysmum82 · 07/11/2013 20:42
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.