It's my birthday on Tuesday. Not a big one, but I love birthdays and always make a big effort to do something nice for DH, all the DC, both sets of parents, etc. This year for DH's birthday I arranged a BBQ, got a modest group of friends and family to come over to surprise him, saved up and got him some nice gifts and baked him his favourite cake. We all had a lovely day and he said he was really touched that I'd made such an effort.
I know it's not a tit for tat thing, but AIBU to be totally gutted that he hasn't so much as booked the day off work for my birthday and that the plans we had made for tomorrow instead are now out of the window because he's been offered overtime? My birthday will come and go as any other regular Tuesday, which really stings in the wake of how much I did for his birthday.
We've had a crap few months for various reasons and I've really been looking forward to us finally doing something nice and familyish. The day out tomorrow was only to a local village fete but we were going to meet up with friends, have a picnic and generally make a bit of a fuss of me. I can hopefully still go without him (transport may be an issue as I don't drive, buses are crap here and I'm not sure how to juggle 4 dc and a basket full of picnic stuff!) but it won't be the same.
Please kick some sense into me and tell me to getteth a grippeth.
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AIBU?
I suspect IABU. Birthday disappointment.
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SmiteYouWithThunderbolts · 12/07/2013 10:59
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