I prob am being unreasonable but can't help feeling abit miffed about this.
It is my dm's birthday on sunday, she is going to be 70, myself and my 3 siblings have been saying for the last couple of years that we would like to do something nice for this occasion and as we don't all get together very often it was decided a few months ago that we would all take her out for a nice meal, We havn't all been together at the same time [except for the wedding and then funeral of my ds's husband] since we were kids,
Anyway it was decided and arranged that us four siblings would take dm out, No partners or spouses, Since it is also Fathers day D stepdad is coming as he has been a big part of our lives for over 20 years and We all love him like a father, We would have included him anyway but with it being Fathers day also it was also a chance to show him how much we care for him.
We all have long term partners but only my brother is still married , He told my dm about 6 months ago that my sis in law is off work with depression, He still agreed to this meal and has booked the night off work so that he can come,
Really been looking forward to this meal, Cannot remember [ apart from said wedding and funeral] when we were all in the same place at the same time, obviously partners ect were at these occasions.
Anyways the meal is tommorow night as Dm and stepdad already have plans for sunday as it's fathers day and his kids want to take them out,
Last night I received a text from one of my ds's saying my db wanted to bring my sis in law as he didn't want to leave her out and alone at home, If he hadn't been coming himself then he would have been working anyway so one of their 3 adult children would have been there with her.
I do feel a bit pee'd off by this as it was agreed that it was just going to be us four kids, dm and d stepdad,
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b584 · 14/06/2013 16:29
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