O.h and I are 22 and have a 10m/o l.g. We are friends with a couple who are 19 and who have recently decided to start trying for a baby.
Personally I think they're a lovely couple who are going about things in a good manner like me and my o.h did. e.g looking for and renting a nice place, both have good jobs and have been saving for a while and both seem like they would make lovely parents. (I have no judgement as to their age as obviously me and my o.h had our l.g young)
But what "gets" me is the fact that they are not planning on telling their parents they are trying for a baby and when they fall pg they're going to say it was an accident. This upsets me as that baby is always going to be thought of as an accident and a mistake by the wider family, despite the fact it is a planned pg.
WIBU to tell them not to such a thing about their future baby? Or should I just let them get on with it and stop poking my nose in ?
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AIBU to want to tell them that it doesn't sit right with me?
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dilanddan · 15/05/2013 11:44
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