We had ds1?s first parents? evening at his new school this afternoon. I have been anxious about how well he has settled in (Y1 ? we have moved) and was left feeling a little deflated as the teacher was a bit vague. Not in front of ds, I told dh I felt it had been ?the usual bollocks?. He didn?t agree but we had no time to discuss it as I had to take ds to his drama class.
My mum is staying with us as dh (sahd) is having an MS relapse. When I got in and had put ds to bed, my dm asked me how the parents? evening had gone and I said, ?fine thanks.? Dh immediately pipes up, ?why are you lying? That?s not what you said to me!? I am livid. My dm was embarrassed, as was I. I would probably have told her my views later but I have been rushing around since 5am (like every other day), it was 8pm, I?m tired, I want time to think over what was said and discuss it with the twat himself before having to explain it all to someone else ? I just haven?t the energy. Why can?t he just respect that?
He used to do this a lot (pull me up on euphemisms/white lies in front of our families) but I have made my views clear and it?s less often now, but just as annoying when he does. We are all having a tough time, but it?s no excuse. My dm is here to help and he has made her feel awkward ? I can?t bear to look at him.
He has just come in the kitchen (dm in sitting room) and still won?t apologise. Apparently, it is his business as she was asking both of us. Fine, but he apparently did feel the parents' evening went fine, so where was the issue?
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lecce · 06/03/2013 21:02
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