Background-dh works long hours in a stressful job and I am a sahm to our dcs. Dh has form for treating me like an unpaid skivvy and we have had words about it-A LOT.
We have both been ill with bad colds since monday. Throat killing,head banging,chest agony kind of thing. I am usually very healthy and havent even been to doctors in about 7 years!-so am certainly not usually one to really whinge when am unwell.
Anyway both feel like shit basically. Bit the last 3 nights dh has come home from work at dcs teatime-half 5-and gone straight to bed. I have been left to do all the cleaning,washing up,homework,baths etc.
This morning he went to work and then reappeared 2 hours later and has gone straight to bed again without so much as a hello.
I am left to entertain toddler,clean house,have to go to post office and then so school run
AIBU to think he is a selfish arse for behaving like this?-I am ill too but havent had the luxury of hours in bed this week.
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Ashoething · 24/01/2013 13:19
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