My son is six years old and is generally good, but still has tantrum occasionally.
The problem is, if he is 'spoilt' in any way, he turns into an absolute PITA.
When he was 4 it got so bad, Id have to go weeks and weeks without taking him for 'days out' other than the park or refrain from buying him any toys/sweets/magazines which were already few and far between, because his behaviour afterward would be demanding, entitled and result in hours of tantrums.
Basically, the more he 'got' the worse he would be.
It still happens now but can sometimes reason with him.
Tonight is an example, he went to his friends house today. They called and said they were having fun and could stay until 4pm, when we picked him up a toy had arrived in the post when he got home (I returned a faulty Christmas present, the toy was the replacement) and his payment to us was to totally and utterly create. Refusing to get in the bath. Refusing to brush his teeth. Refusing to read books. Demanding this, howling about that.
Its black and white, its bed, teeth, books and bed. We arent fannying around, if he kicks off then he can get on with it.
But WHY the fuck does he do this?
His birthday is a few days after Christmas, christmas is dragged on over 4 days so he is utterly spoilt then, I dont think you need me to explain how horrific Christmas can be because of it.
WHY??
It cant be normal can it?!
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To genuinely wonder if this is normal childhood behaviour?
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PassMeTheWino · 19/01/2013 19:00
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