I'm looking for honest answers please.
I'm a sahm so I do 95% of the childcare of our son and 90-95% of the housework. DP works full time running his own company.
DP likes to leave his clothes from the day before laying on the bedroom floor, he'll also leave other bits and bobs laying around the house. When he empties his car of rubbish he'll clear half of it away and then leave the rest for the cleaning fairy.
I have always dealt with this by putting all his crap he can't be arsed to pick up down his side of the bed (it's next to the window so out of my sight there). He's now starting to get really moany about it and wants me to clear it up for him. I've refused point blank.
I'm not the tidiest of people myself, some days I can be a bit messy, other days everything is spotless except his side of the bed
Should I be putting his stuff away for him? He does work hard and I do feel bad for him, but I don't want to get in to the trap of being his person cleaner.
AIBU?
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AIBU to leave DPs crap on his side of the bed?
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ItsALongWayToPickAWilly · 19/12/2012 18:41
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