To think that if you ask for advice, you shouldn't get all pissed off if someone says something you don't like...

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

And then the fucking mods banned me and deleted all my perfectly reasonable comments. So now this poster thinks even more that she is in the right.

It was on the EmmasDiary facebook page yes, I know... I stated that her stance was offensive to me (she thinks her exH isnt safe to look after her kids as he is depressed) and I was jumped on and called an idiot (spelt wrong, ha). She "lolled" at my depression, so I childish, I know! said I thought it was hysterical that she had PND, and somewhat ironic given that she wont let H see his own kids.

Sigh. Why do I do it...

Feel free to all tell me IAB a cunt.

[abbierhodes]

Haha! Emma's diary is ridiculous!

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Now followed by six million "she only asked for advice and she's getting judged, dont worry hun, you know best with your bubs". Ffs.

Men, if your partner gets PND, take the baby and run. same thing...

[GrumpyCynicalBastard]

Oh God - that is a truly awful site!

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

I only joined for the free stuff!

It did also make me feel nice to give advice on the posted problems. Seems only flowery advice is appreciated though.

[GhostShip]

I've commented coz I'm fuming.

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

As was I! I still am tbh, as ridiculous as that sounds, words on a screen etc etc

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

And FWIW, i told her I had depression and was offended by the suggestion I would hurt my children, so her "PND is different" argument is stupid anyway, as I dont have PND!! Argh! Idiod.

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

(I am the "jumped up idiod". Seems her post calling me that doesnt get deleted...)

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Shes still talking about me, like 100 posts later. Ha.

[MurderOfGoths]

Oh god, I saw that post earlier and hid it. It made me too angry!

Especially as I've just been put under the care of a crisis mental health team due to suicidal thoughts. If anyone even thought about trying to restrict my access to my son I'd be distraught!

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Exactly! Why do EmmasDiary not see how different it would be if it was the woman being denied unsupervised access to her children! (She is v keen to say "i'll let him see them, but only when i'm there) I understand that the stupid bint doesnt get my point, but to have my comments deleted because the whole site disagrees...

[MurderOfGoths]

It seems to me that anyone who disagrees with the majority on there gets deleted. Not long after I signed up there were a series of messages about shutting down comments to stop people fighting, at which point I figured it wasn't worth getting involved in that side of the site.

[Moominsarescary]

God I hate those fb pages and emmas diary has to be one of the most bloody annoying

[McChristmasPants2012]

I think this is best to be kept on that site, it is a pet hate of mine that members of other website come over here to bitch.

Why have you bought it here, because to me it sounds like something out of the playground at school.

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Seems I'm too used to posting on MN and giving honest opinions, warts n all

I've now un-liked them. Ha, that'll show them!

Hope you're feeling okay murder. I find distracting myself arguing online helps me not think about it :)

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Because I was irritated. I find most things on MN could be solved elsewhere tbh actually on the playground in recent examples
Not moaning about the site in general, moaning about people on it. No different to moaning about real people is it? Is it?

[McChristmasPants2012]

but i agree with you

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

(Its not the website by the way, its their facebook page. Not sure if that makes it better or worse )

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Sigh, its still going on. I cant stop myself looking at it!

[Moominsarescary]

I can't look at it again, I'll want to post something

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Go oooooon. I cant, im banned!

"All I'm saying is that if hes tried to commit suicide he shouldnt be alone with them. Am I wrong?"
Yes.

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Go to court you stupid woman. Try to get a judge to say he is only allowed supervised access. Ffs, there are women on the relationships board who (slightly more grey area!) cant ban unsupervised access when they left because of DV!!

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Back again!

"He can see them, but only with someone supervising"
I have depression and am alone with my children right now. Someone call 999. I'm also "disabled" long story Where is my supervision ? why is my DH in work instead of making sure I dont burn the house down?

[Moominsarescary]

She's bloody annoying, but so are most of them tbh. They don't have a clue

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

Grr "supervising"! How fucking patronising!!