My DP and I have very different ideas about monogamy, which I only discovered when we started living together.
He thinks that, by design, every one has a partner; it's the way they are made. When they come into being, then two are betrothed and must be together throughout their life. This means that they are forced to stay together, even if one is flawed or defective.
I, on the other hand, like to mix things up a bit. I don't believe that every one is matched; just that that's how we, as people, view it. We superimpose our own sense of monogamy onto a situation that doesn't need it. I like to think every one has a new chance each day and a whole range of options. Maybe the two originals will come together again, maybe they won't. Either way, it will be by random chance as opposed to being held together, against their will, to ensure they stay together. I like to think the choices I make are my own.
He says I am thinking too much about socks. But then he would- his match.
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Different ideas about monogamy
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IKIAMBU · 03/11/2012 13:42
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