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Have been a SAHM for nearly 6 years, kids 5, 4 and 1. DH works very hard. We have recently been finding money is a bit tight so we decided I would work for a couple of shifts in the pub/restaurant. I was supposed to do 12-9 on my first day yesterday but someone rang in sick so I went in at half nine instead to help out and worked short all day, very busy, really hard until 11pm with only a 15 min break to eat something.
I do 95% of housework, all cooking, all laundry etc which is fine. If DH comes home when DCs are still up then the house can be a bit messy sometimes. If after bedtime then I always make an effort to have all tidy and either we have a few drinks or I have a meal waiting.
DH was fantastic with DCs yesterday and took them out all day, didn't get back til 8 but when I got home, the kids coats and shoes etc were left where they'd taken them off on lounge floor, our bed was unmade, generally just he hadn't bothered tidying up.
I'm really pissed off because I came home after 13 1/2 hours working and had to start picking up after him.
So...he thinks I am being moany and pathetic and I think he is an inconsiderate pig, AIBU or is HBU??
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Convert · 01/11/2012 08:16
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